And............
....she's back! Well, at least she was a couple times last night. Just told me about her day and other miscellaneous type things. Almost like she forgot she was leaving. A fellow blogger left a comment earlier calling Sara an 'emotional punching bag'. That was a surprise for me to read because if anyone is that punching bag, its me. I sure hope I haven't given the rest of you that impression of her. If anything, she does beat up on herself, emotionally, more often than she should. But she is in total control of how she is treated by her 'men'. She had no problems with his request for the dna testing. Probably due to guilt on her part, and the knowledge that they all were definately his kids. To protest would be to appear guilty.
posted by do_in_it_2 | 8:30 AM
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'his request for the dna testing' - Where did that come from?
regular - see http://willshebeback.blogspot.com/2005/10/visit.html
*YOU* are the punching bag? Come on now, read your own words and the glee you take in your alleged pwoer over her and knowing she will come back or your glee in her "she's battling guilt again - but probably with a huge smile on her face" or your arrogance in delcaring "I would bet anything that if I were to pick a time and place - she'd be there," etc...puh-lease.
Look, if you enjoy the emotional highs & lows and manipulations and games and deceits just be honest and say so. That is easier to read than trying to dechperh someone seeming to speak out of both sides of their mouth
iatia - its my nature to cut people some slack when otherwise they come across as idiots. that's because i'm not confident enough in my ability to express myself perfectly so that there leaves no doubt in someone's mind how i feel, or exactly what point i'm trying to make. so before you try to shove words into my mouth, or incorrectly decipher what i write, take that into consideration. and ASK questions that might clear up any ambiguity.
Questions:
-Do you enjoy the lies, deceit and manipulations?
-Do you enjoy the thrill of the affair?
-Why do you need her to explain why she needs to "leave" (note: she isn't with you, so she really isn't leaving you) as opposed to just accepting her decision.
-Why do you continue on in an affair that is something that seems awfully destructive to Sara?
Just straight questions per your request.
iatia - i'll answer this in a post. they're legitimate questions and i'm sure shared by other readers.
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